Have been in this mess sometimes, but people will tell you hey speak up, do this or do that. Have also acted to prove man-ship or my legal rights to things as constituited, but i tell you it has not been easy especially in today's world.
Dont get pushed, 5 years back i got pushed and those who motivated me never helped me because they could not. At the end of the day every one will retire to their home individually and no one will be there to feel the pains. I learnt my lessons to be silent some times because it helps me think rights in other not to acts wrong.
Now that is not even the point here though it is very valid. Let me pause to ask again if silence is cowardliness.
Assuming your father maltreats you,depending on the type of culture you find yourself, we leaving in some parts of Africa the father always have the final say like a pop whether or not he his right. But we the children has drastically reduce it and we have made up our mind not to leave in the past again.
Now if your father treats you wrongly i mean oughtrightly he is wrong and you try to reacts might be because he trampled on your own foundamental human rights and what you receive is cause from him which mostimes comes to reality. What will you do if it happens to you. What if he drives you out of the house for being stubbon basicaly due to standing for your rights? Where will you stay, when you got no money? What will you eat,when you got no money? and the saying is endles....think about that! silence is not cowardliness
Lets look at another scenerio, surposing you find yourself in a highschool filled up with gangsterian, Secrets groups that works against your believe. They keep doing things illigally pressing on your rights and you were not secured, armed or safe. Due to your collegue degrading you, you are ready to show 20 people that you are capable. Brother weldone, i salute your caurage...when you come out alive then you are a hero. But i know that such heroes are mostly found in the grave..silence is not cowardliness
FACTS TO CONSIDER BEFORE TAKING ACTIONS
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Dont get pushed, 5 years back i got pushed and those who motivated me never helped me because they could not. At the end of the day every one will retire to their home individually and no one will be there to feel the pains. I learnt my lessons to be silent some times because it helps me think rights in other not to acts wrong.
What is Cowardliness
According to Encarta Dictionary the word Coward means, somebody lacking courage: somebody regarded as fearful and uncourageous. But what happens if you head to peoples advice and at the end of the day somebody bleeds and die, someone gets injured badly. Where do you think you will run to? I know you may think of hiding? That ways before not now in this 21st century world of technology where you will be traced even from the body of the deceased , traced from DNA, traced from scientific research and you get cuts.Now that is not even the point here though it is very valid. Let me pause to ask again if silence is cowardliness.
Assuming your father maltreats you,depending on the type of culture you find yourself, we leaving in some parts of Africa the father always have the final say like a pop whether or not he his right. But we the children has drastically reduce it and we have made up our mind not to leave in the past again.
Now if your father treats you wrongly i mean oughtrightly he is wrong and you try to reacts might be because he trampled on your own foundamental human rights and what you receive is cause from him which mostimes comes to reality. What will you do if it happens to you. What if he drives you out of the house for being stubbon basicaly due to standing for your rights? Where will you stay, when you got no money? What will you eat,when you got no money? and the saying is endles....think about that! silence is not cowardliness
Lets look at another scenerio, surposing you find yourself in a highschool filled up with gangsterian, Secrets groups that works against your believe. They keep doing things illigally pressing on your rights and you were not secured, armed or safe. Due to your collegue degrading you, you are ready to show 20 people that you are capable. Brother weldone, i salute your caurage...when you come out alive then you are a hero. But i know that such heroes are mostly found in the grave..silence is not cowardliness
FACTS TO CONSIDER BEFORE TAKING ACTIONS
- Think first before you acts
- plan out legal ways to handle issues
- have patience do not rush
- seek counselling from elders, counselors or the rythorics
- pray for guidance from God (for those who are christians)
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